9 Exciting Bondage Sex Positions

If you are looking to dip a toe into kink, bondage is a great place to start: Most of the tools you need to fulfill your BDSM fantasies are lying around your house already. But before you grab the nearest bandana and strap your partner to a kitchen chair, there are a few things you should know.

First of all, you and your partner should discuss your boundaries: which of you is willing to be tied up and/or tied down; what you want done to you in that position, and what you don’t; how much pressure you’re into; and what safe word will signal when one of you has had enough.

Pay attention to your partner’s body language during the act, too, and ask them how they’re doing if you think they look uncomfortable.

And remember: You don’t need to hog-tie someone to reap the erotic rewards of restraint — the mere act of having your wrists bound, whether or not you actually could worm your way out of the ties if you wanted, is hot all on its own.

See for yourself with these nine bondage sex positions.

1

Leap Frog

How to: Have your partner lie with their stomach flat on the mattress (or wherever you’re going to be having sex) and bind their wrists together over their head. Maybe blindfold them, too, because why the hell not?

Then, lift their hips to enter them from behind, keeping their shoulders down and their knees rooted while you thrust.

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2

Rear Entry Standing

How to: Bend your partner over and bind their wrists to their ankles, with their feet anchored shoulder-width apart for better balance.

Enter your partner from behind, keeping your hands on their hips to make sure they don’t topple over. Try a hands-free couples vibrator, like the Eva II ($135), for added clitoral stimulation.

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3

Pinball Wizard

How to: Have your partner lie down with their back flush to the mattress and lift their hips into the air, as if they were doing a bridge in yoga. Then, bind their wrists behind their back and grab their butt, so they can wrap their legs around your waist as you thrust. (This one is like the leap frog, but in reverse.)

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4

Seated Rear Entry

How to: For this one, grab a sturdy chair and park your butt in it. Then, get your wrists and ankles tied to the frame, and once you’re ready to go — after a little oral sex, maybe — have your partner straddle you and pump up and down. Whether they face you or turn away is entirely up to them.

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5

Knees To Chest

How to: To best introduce bondage in a knees-to-chest position, bind your partner’s ankles and calves together. Then, while they’re lying on their back, have them drape their legs over your shoulder as you penetrate. You can also make use of those restraints or even cuffs, and bind your partner’s wrists above their head.

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6

Downward Dog

How to: For this one, assume roughly the same position as leap frog, but handcuff your partner’s wrists behind their back and spread their legs. You should kneel between their legs and enter from behind while their body is flat against the mattress, ground, kitchen table, wherever. Then, reach a hand around to stroke their clitoris — because to neglect it would be very rude indeed.

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7

Snow Angel

How to: With your partner lying on their back with their legs spread wide, straddle them while facing their toes. Once you’re situated, have them wrap their legs around you waist and tip their pelvis up, allowing you to slide back and enter. Then, they can grab their anal toy of choice, lubricate it generously, and work it while you grind. (Please note, anal always goes better when the receiving party is really aroused, so preface this position with plenty of foreplay.)

Because your butt is right there, other teasing options include slaps and pinches. Also on the table: Some light testicular tugging, whatever you’re comfortable with and enjoy.

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8

Valedictorian

How to: First things first, ready your restraints, whether it’s simply scarves or rope. Bind your partner’s wrists, either to the bed frame or above their head, while they lie in missionary position. Then, have them spread their legs in a V-shape and lift them toward their head. You can help with this, pushing their ankles back (as far as feels good for them) and holding them in place while you thrust.

Easy to execute without too much maneuvering, the Valedictorian remains a classic because it offers solid G-spot stimulation in combination with a good stretch.

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9

Spoons

How to: First, grab two ties, one for your partner’s eyes and one for their wrists. Blindfold them and bind their wrists in front of them, so they hang down by their hips. Once they’re all tied up, you can take the reins in foreplay, before rolling them onto their side and entering from behind. As you rock into them, you can surprise you with nipple tweaks and strokes, keeping stimulation on their clit. They get to lie back and enjoy the feels.

A big part of what makes spoon sex such a winner: easy access to the clit and nips.

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